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The Messiah’s Secret – Get on Board

The Messiah’s Secret – Get on Board

Tuesday 24th April 2012 Mothers’ Union Meeting St Anne’s C of E Edgeside M U

A man lived by the river; now and again the river would rise above its banks and flood the man’s garden. On this occasion the flood waters kept on rising, the man’s neighbour came and suggested to him that he should leave his house and go up onto higher ground. The man refused saying, “God will look after me.” Steadily the waters kept on rising, so again the neighbour came to his house and beckoned to the man to get into his boat, but the man refused. The weather grew worse and his neighbour feared for the man’s life, he saw that he had climbed onto the roof, so he called for a helicopter to rescue him. But still the man insisted that God would look after him.
Sadly the house could no longer stand the strain and the walls collapsed and the man drowned. When in heaven he asked God why he hadn’t looked after him. God replied, “I did, I sent your neighbour to you on three occasions: for you to go with him onto higher ground, secondly he came with his boat to pick you up, and thirdly he sent a helicopter to rescue you”. But he did not recognise they were from God.

The Pharisees did not recognise the signs of the times.
“The Pharisees came to him asking for a sign from heaven. “When it is evening, you say, ‘It will be fair weather, for the sky is red’. And in the morning, ‘It will be stormy today for the sky is red and threatening!’ You know how to interpret the appearance of the sky, but you cannot interpret the signs of the times. An evil and adulterous generation seeks for a sign but no sign will be given to it except the sign of Jonah.” Matthew 16: 1-4

Signs of the Times in Jesus’ day
The Jewish people were in great expectation of the coming of the Messiah. Luke records the people expressing this expectation, on the occasion when men came to John the Baptist and asked him if he was the Messiah. Luke 3: 15
Another sign is the prophecy of Moses were God would raise up a prophet like himself. Deuteronomy 18: 15-18.
The Pharisees were looking for the Messiah to be a great leader like Moses and give them a sign in using his power to rid them of their Roman invaders.
The Romans had invaded Israel in 64BC so it was nearly 100 years that they had been under occupation. The Romans allowed the conquered nation to continue with their own religious beliefs.
It is quite likely that some of the Jews would try to please influential Roman officials to gain from it. Whilst a few would totally object to the Roman occupation. Others would try to please both Roman and Jewish authorities.
“So the chief priests and the Pharisees gathered the council, and said, “What are we to do? For this man (Jesus) performs many signs. If we let him go on thus, everyone will believe in him, and the Romans will come and destroy both our holy place and our nation.” John 11: 47, 48.
It is quite possible that Jesus had noticed how Roman culture and spirituality had infiltrated into Jewish society when he called them, ‘An evil and adulterous generation.’

Discerning Signs of the Times Today
Spring Council Saturday 21 April 2012
Guest Speaker Chief Executive of Mothers’ Union Reg Bailey

Reg Bailey, described the founder of the Mothers’ Union Mary Sumner as a lady who prayed, campaigned and enabled the women of her day, to speak with one voice on family issues, based on Christian principals. The Victorian era was not the golden age for the family, poverty, disease and lack of education was prevalent amongst the majority of the population.
These steadfast structures of prayer, campaigning and enabling are the basis of the Mothers’ Union today.
Praying in faith for our nation’s family life has been a high priority amongst the members of the M.U. As a mum myself it has been heart breaking to see the decline in Christian family values across the nation. The Lord in answer to all our prayers calls us to act by putting our faith into practice and to get on board, and support the ‘Bye, Buy, Childhood’ campaign.

This campaign came into being, when concerns were raised at a meeting in York among MU members about the commercialisation of children and from the discussions that followed, the name ‘Bye, Buy, Childhood’ was given to the campaign.
The aim of the ‘Bye, buy childhood ‘campaign is for every child to enjoy their childhood without the sexualisation and commercialisation of their young lives

Mothers’ Union believes children should be valued as children, not consumers. However, childhood has become a marketing opportunity worth £99 billion in the UK. Marketers target children’s natural inexperience, through methods such as celebrity endorsement, in order to reach not only children’s pocket money but also the household purse. These commercial pressures encourage materialism which negatively affects children’s wellbeing, family life and peer relationships, and can encourage values that Jesus taught against. The use of sexualised content and the imposition of sexuality on children to market and sell goods are particularly concerning. Families can feel overwhelmed by this commercialisation of childhood and unsure how to challenge powerful marketing initiatives.

10 Downing Street
MP Sarah Teather Minister of State for Children and Families contacted MU Reg Bailey and asked if he would attend a round table meeting at Downing Street, and give the views of the MU on tackling the commercialisation and sexualisation of childhood. The Prime Minister and Sarah Teather, hosted the meeting, seventy people attended.
The out come of the meeting Reg Bailey was asked to produce a report.

The Government asked Reg to look into this issue because they wanted a common sense approach to the concerns of many parents, who feel their children are under increasing pressure to become consumers, and that the world they live in is a more sexualised place than when their parents were growing up. Reg was asked to put forward recommendations to address the high levels of public concern, taking into account particularly the views of parents and the business community.

The report dealt with the real concerns that became apparent through the interviews.
1,000 parents and 600 children from 7 – 19 years of age were interviewed by Reg and his team. Along with children’s organisations and commercial companies.
This 99 billion market effects; values, aspirations and health.

Children interviewed:
Values.

Children are not aware of being exploited. Some children are on-line brand ambassadors they were paid to wear brand names on clothing, and fashion accessories on ‘Facebook Wall.’
A child said that there should be on the TV control another button beside the red one to blank the picture.

Aspirations.
The majority of children when they were asked what they would like to be when they grew up, they wanted to aspire to be famous, a celebrity.
The TV Talent Show ‘Britain’s’ got Talent’ the lyrics of Rihannas song caused hundreds of people to complain.

PM’s wife Mrs Cameron was appalled when she heard her daughter singing Lily Allen’s song from her album ‘It’s not me, its you.’ the words of the chorus shocked her.

Health
In most adverts the teenager in the picture has been hair brushed to have the perfect skin and proportions. Reg pointed out that children are not immune to low self esteem.

Parents interviewed:
80% of parents interviewed were concerned about inappropriate clothing but were afraid of their children being bullied by other children for not wearing the right clothes.
Concerns were raised regarding adverts on street advertisements on Bill Boards, Screens on buildings and in Bus Shelters.
Parents were unsure as to which organisation to complain to.
Music videos are not age rated and some of these videos are pornographic.

The responsibility for parents to make their children aware:
The pictures they take on their mobile phone are not private, they become public property.
Kids are media savvy: for some what they see and hear bounces off them, but for others they take it seriously and are damaged by what they see and hear.

The publication of Reg Bailey’s report enables our nation to protect our children from sexulisation and commercialisation of childhood.
On October 11th 2011, a number of the organisations responsible for taking forward these recommendations were invited to provide an update on their actions. Individually they were interviewed by Prime Minister David Cameron and were asked directly for details of their progress on implementing the recommendations and areas where they expect to take further action.

The supermarkets have complied with the recommendations of the report, to either cover with a modesty board the front cover of Lads Mags that are displayed at I metre height or to put them on their top shelves above the eye level of a child.
40% of children’s clothing retail sector have now signed up to the guidelines including Argos, Debenhams, George at Asda, John Lewis, M&CO, M&S, Next, Peakcocks, Pumpkin Patch, Sainsbury’s, Tesco and TK Maxx.

BT, Virgin, Sky, Talk Talk in their packages give an ‘active choice’ on whether or not the purchaser wants to install parental controls. Parents will quite often leave the setting up of their computer to their children so this choice is left to them.

New code on public advertisements, the Advertising Association announced a voluntary ban on under-16s being employed to act as ambassadors for brand names or in peer-to-peer marketing campaigns.
The outdoor advertising industry also announced a voluntary ban on advertisements near schools for lap-dancing clubs and similar adult services.

Watershed – General Viewing Public. A consensus of opinion coming from the adult population. Ofcom issued new guidance on pre-watershed TV content to ensure programmes aimed at a family audience are always family-friendly and suitable for children.
Reg said that Ofcom has a new parents panel they have put in place a really tuff code.

Get on Board and take action.
If we see in our local shop that they have not yet complied with the recommendations of the report regarding ‘lads mags’, we should express our concerns to the appropriate person in the shop and if nothing is done we can complain to the newly set up on line ‘parent port.’
Ofcom joined with six other media regulators (the Advertising Standards Authority, Authority for Television and Video on Demand, the BBC Trust, the British Board of Film Classification, the Press Complaints Commission and the Video Standards Council) to set up and create the ParentPort website which provides a single accessible interface for parents to express their views and concerns about material they feel is unsuitable for children across the media, communications and retail industries. (extract from Sarah Teather’s letter to the Department for Education)

Age rating for music videos is under consideration as the industry look for evidence to support this call for the introduction of age rating.

The government has asked to Reg and his team and all of us, to take an active role in working with voluntary groups like; Mumsnet and Netmums to hold business, organisations and Government to account.

God brought Jonah to account

Jonah had been given direction by God to take a message of repentance to the city of Nineveh. But Jonah did not want to go so he boarded a ship going to Tarshish. Due to the violence of the storm the sailors began to off load the cargo. The storm grew worse the sailors cast lots and the lot fell upon Jonah, he owned up to have been disobedient to his God and he volunteered to be cast overboard. When he landed in the water a huge fish swallowed him whole. After three days the fish vomited him out on to dry land. He knew hat he had been resurrected.
The conviction to take the message to the city of Nineveh was uppermost in his heart, so this time he went willingly. The people and King of Nineveh repented when they heard God’s message from Jonah. Jonah Chapters 1-3

God cared about Jesus and in his love for the people of the world, he sent him with a message for us to change our ways and believe in him.
When we take up Jesus’ cross and feel the pain of sin, as he felt it, and die to it by saying sorry to God our Father, we enter into the freedom of Jesus’ forgiveness. God raises us up into a newness of life.
We continue to take up Jesus’ cross day by day as we experience Jesus’ love reaching out to others. That is why Reg Bailey of Mothers’ Union cares about the children and parents of our nation. Jesus’ love touching the hearts of politicians, supermarket executives, company directors and advertising agencies, they have recognised the need to give our children their childhood.

The restraing work of the Holy Spirit.
“And you know what is restraining him now so that he may be revealed in his time. The mystery of the lawlessness is already at work; only he who restrains it will do so until he is out of the way. And then the lawless one will be revealed, and the Lord Jesus will slay him with the breath of his mouth and destroy him by his appearing and his coming.” 2 Thessalonians 2: 6-8
Through Reg and his team along with the Mothers’ Union’s 4 million members across 83 countries in the world, are slowing down restraining the revealing of the antichrist. Along with other Christians are like salt that restrains the corruption of food, until it ultimately is corrupted. The Holy Spirit’s work in the church is about making Christ known until the coming of Jesus whose feet will stand on the Mount of Olives.

The Messiah’s Secret – Faithful Relationships

Duck pond at the entrance to St. Mary’s on Mothering Sunday

In the picture below Joe Armstrong was about to catch the duckling that had leapt off the ledge of a building.
A few weeks ago whilst watching TV news, the BBC included an item that appears on ‘YouTube’ Joe Armstrong rescuing twelve ducklings from their nest off a ledge, that was just below his office window 5 mitres above the ground. Joe had been keeping an eye on the duck’s nest with its twelve eggs. The day the ducklings hatched mother duck flew down from the nest on to the pavement below leaving her ducklings pacing nervously on the edge of the ledge.
Joe rushed down on to the pavement and stood next to mother duck wondering what to do, when one of the ducklings leapt off the ledge and began plummeting straight down as it was unable to fly at a day old. Joe reached out and caught it. Then another one jumped, until eight ducklings were on the pavement next to their mum. The other four ducklings were removed from the ledge by using a ladder. When all twelve ducklings were safely on the pavement Joe and the crowd of well wishers guided the duck and her ducklings to the river.
Joe is reported as saying, “Oh we did it, man that was an ordeal, I can’t believe we did it, wow, we did it.”

This true story about Joe rescuing the ducklings reminded me of the faithfulness of God. Our Lord God watches over us giving us a helping hand when we take a leap of faith.

Faithful relationships is this years theme for the Mother’s Union.
The Mother’s Union is an organisation that began in 1877 when Mary Sumner, a vicar’s wife, and by this time a grandmother, founded the organisation which was to become a worldwide body of 3.6 million members in seventy-nine countries. Her world was very different from the one we find today.
In 1851, Reverend George Sumner was given the living of Old Alresford, Hampshire. Mary dedicated herself to raising her children, and helping her husband in his ministry by providing music and Bible classes. In 1876, when her eldest daughter Margaret gave birth, Mary was reminded how difficult she had found the burden of motherhood. She was inspired to call a meeting of mothers in the parish to offer mutual support. Her plan was quite radical in it’s day, as it involved calling women of all social classes to support one another, and to see motherhood as a profession as important as those of men, if not more so. The first meeting was held in Old Alresford Rectory.
Today’s members are well aware that family life has changed over the years, and now there is a much broader level of membership, and care for members and their families, including divorced, separated and single women and men.

This years theme ‘Faithful relationships’ we are making the connection with people’s relationships that occur in the Bible and with Christian relationships today were we support one another through good times and bad times.

St. Mary’s Players
We have all had or got a mother and the sketch gave us a Christian view of faith seen in our mother.
Sketch: Whilst mum was preparing the meal the members of the family arrived and on arrival they were asked the question by dad, “What is faith?” Each one in turn gave a word that in the end described faith in mum.
Mum is: truthful, honest, reliable, steadfast, loyalty, trustworthy and having assurance in.
If we put together these words with Peter’s words in his second letter Chapter 1 verses 1-8 and Hebrews Chapter 8 verse 10.
The seed of the word, Jesus, received by faith contains all the righteousness of God. The characteristics of faith in the divine nature of our Lord God: truth, honest, reliable, steadfast, loyal, trustworthy and having assurance in, virtue, perseverance, self-control, knowledge, Godliness, brother and sisterly affection with love, compassion, kindness and the commandments written in the heart.

We grow in faith gradually becoming more like Jesus. The Holy Spirit convicting us of our shortcomings. Maybe we find ourselves saying the things that result in us having a difference of opinion with some one.
A couple were travelling down a country road, not saying a word. An earlier discussion had lead them to an argument, and neither wanted to concede their position. As they passed a farmyard, in the yard there were pigs and donkeys. The husband said sarcastically to his wife, “Relatives of yours.” His wife replied, “Yep, in laws.”

The fruit of the seed of faith in Jesus we see in faithful relationships.
I see an example of faithful relationships when after the Ascension of Jesus the apostles, the women, Mary and Jesus’ brothers were gathered in the upper room in the house at Jerusalem. Acts 2: 12-14.
11 apostles, 10 women followers (Mary Magdalene, Mary mother of James and John, Salome, Joanne wife of Chuza, Herod’s steward, Susanna, Mary and Martha of Bethany, Mary mother of James the younger, Joses and Salome, Mary mother of James and Joseph, Mary the mother of Jesus her sister Mary, wife of Clopas,) (Not all of these women may have been there.)
Mary and Jesus’ brothers; James, Joseph, Simon and Judas. Jesus’ sisters are not present. Matthew 13; 55,56 Mary must have had at least 7 children.

I tried to imagine the scene in the upper room. Their expectation and excitement as Jesus had told them to wait in Jerusalem and pray for the coming of the Holy Spirit from Heaven and having the peace of the Lord in their heart, as they were now no longer afraid of the Pharisees knock at the door.
I would also think that they shared their meals together. It was customary for Jewish people to reminisce over meals.
At some point after Jesus’ resurrection Mary would have shared the story of Jesus’ birth with the believers. Remembering the day when the angel Gabriel visited, telling her that she had been chosen to bear the Son of God.

Joseph’s heart must have been broken when he heard that Mary was pregnant. The same as any man would feel today. But we can’t always see the whole picture, we jump to conclusions which often proves us to be wrong conclusions. Mary’s honesty had tested her relationship with Joseph. We know he considered ending their betrothal.

Mary must have known the pain that Joseph was suffering, but her loyalty to God made her faithful, reliable, truthful and trustworthy.
God comforted Joseph by giving him assurance in a dream, he was told by the angel that the baby was of God and that he should marry Mary and name the child Jesus.
Joseph and Mary’s relationship was restored.

I’m sure that everyone gathered around the table would have been eager to hear of Simeon’s prophecy to Joseph and Mary.
Joseph and Mary took Jesus when he was 6 weeks old to be presented at the temple. On arrival in the temple, Simeon saw them and immediately went up to them and took Jesus into his arms and blessed him, prophesying over him. He declared him to be the Christ and Saviour of Israel and also of the Gentiles.

Then Simeon spoke directly to Mary giving her a prophecy that her Son would bring to pass the ‘Fall and rising’ of many in Israel and a sword would pierce her own heart.

How relevant it would have been if she shared it with the apostles and followers at that time so soon after it had been fulfilled.

The Fall and Rising.
The Fall
It had been apparent that the disciples James and John had desired to sit one on Jesus left and the other on his right in his kingdom. This would indicate that they expected Jesus to be their King.
How their hopes were dashed when Jesus was arrested and brought to trial and then crucified by the Romans. The disciples fall from the height of expectation of Jesus being the King of Israel to the anguish of the cross his suffering and death.
Mary with some of the other women and John the disciple were at the cross. Mary would have suffered as most mothers would, at seeing her Son going through an agonising death. She surely would have remembered Simeon’s prophecy to her, ‘A sword would pierce her heart.’
Mary perhaps didn’t recognise at the time the significance of Jesus’ death he died to save the whole of humanity.

Mother duck needed the help of Joe Armstrong to enable her ducklings to survive the fall from off the ledge; otherwise they would have suffered and died on the pavement.

Jesus has saved us; otherwise we were heading for destruction and death. We are saved through faith in Jesus; he has touched our hearts with his love for us. His arms outstretched to embrace us.
Just as God raised Jesus from the dead, so we are raised up with him, from death to life eternal.

The Rising Jesus being raised from the dead surely must have filled the disciples with joy and amazement. For 6 weeks he was with them teaching the things concerning the kingdom of God.
God is faithful Jesus had told them that he would send the Holy Spirit to comfort them. They waited and prayed for only 10 days in the upper room, when he came, the sound of a mighty rushing wind filled the whole house and they were too filled with the Holy Spirit.
Ever since that day the Holy Spirit has been filling people’s hearts and lives.

So as we sit quietly and sing ‘Come breath of life come sweeping through us fill our hearts with life and power, O Breath of Life, come cleanse renew us . . . . O Breath of Love, come breathe within us renewing thought and will and heart . . . O Wind of God, come bend us, break us till humbly we confess our need; then in your tenderness remake us, revive, restore for this we plead. MP 488

After the Hymn has finished a prayer for the sealing of the Holy Spirit in the lives of those present.